There is no security for those who seek it outside of themselves.
It's not your job to like me, it's mine.
Hurt feelings or discomfort of any kind cannot be caused by another person. No one outside me can hurt me. That's not a possibility. It's only when I believe a stressful thought that I get hurt. And I'm the one who's hurting me by believing what I think. This is very good news, because it means that I don't have to get someone else to stop hurting me. I'm the one who can stop hurting me. It's within my power.
Do you want to meet the love of your life? Look in the mirror.
All the advice you ever gave your partner, is for you to hear.